Patricia "Trish" M. Stoltenberg, 57, of La Crosse died on Monday, Aug. 17, 2009, at her home. She was born Jan. 8, 1952, in La Crosse to Raymond and Marie (Schroer) Miller. Trish graduated from Aquinas High School in 1970. She married Arden Stoltenberg on Oct. 8, 1989, in Westby. Trish had worked at First Federal/Associated Bank for 30 years. She enjoyed crafts, gardening, traveling and spending time with her family. She is survived by her husband, Arden; her mother, Marie Miller of La Crosse; three sisters, Beverly Miller of La Crosse, Lucile (Gerald) Dahlke of La Crosse and Rose Marie Murphy of Roselle, Ill.; a brother, Gerald (Sharon) Miller of Onalaska; a stepson, Jason (T.J.) Reese of La Crosse; a stepdaughter, Jada (Brian) Shea of Braintree, Mass.; eight grandchildren, Gavin, Carver and Jazzy Reese, and Stella, Lila, Cooper, Mason and Nora Shea; and numerous nieces, nephews and friends. She was preceded in death by her father. A Mass of Christian Burial will be at 11 a.m. Friday, Aug. 21, at Roncalli Newman Center in La Crosse. The Rev. Mark Pierce will officiate. Burial will be in the Catholic Cemetery, La Crosse. Friends may call from 5 to 8 p.m. Thursday at Schumacher-Kish Funeral Home of La Crosse. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be given to the University of Wisconsin Transplant Department or Roncalli Newman Center Building Fund.